So my latest project isn't knitting related, but one regarding cleaning out my home and simplifying. I've been discussing hoarding with several people lately, saw a show about it, and discovered there is even a series on tv called "hoarders." While I am not a hoarder by definition, I definitely am a collector and have collected too much stuff over the years. Now having a child who keeps accumulating new stuff, I need to make room for his stuff.
This all started with my grandmother's death. While I knew she had many possessions, I have since learned from my aunt, who had to clean out her apartment, about just how much stuff she kept. Apparently she had letters from the 1940s saved, along with lots of stuffed animals, clothes with tags, and tons of costume "QVC" jewelry, amongst other things. My aunt was able to donate a large part of her stuff to Goodwill, but is now having trouble getting rid of the remaining things--trouble meaning that it is hard for her to part with those things. She is threatening to bring it all up to my family (mom, sister and I) next spring when she visits. My grandmother apparently had a huge collection of pot holders and kitchen towels--all new! She also had lots of kitchen items, despite the fact that she hadn't cooked in years. There is just so many remnants of our lives that we have that no one else is really interested in owning. I started thinking about all the crap I own that is cluttering up my home. Would I want my husband or son to have to go through all of it? Certainly there is going to be stuff, but I have too much unused stuff.
So, starting yesterday, I've started cleaning out our basement. I filled a whole big trash bag with old rugs that I was hoping to clean and old bedding that I thought could be reused again, but after a year in the basement that is constantly damp, there was no way anyone could sleep on it. I realized that I saved stuff that I thought would be salvageable, but in reality, it was not usable or even in donation condition. Today I filled two trash bags. One with a large number of old lunch bags that had become moldy/mildewy or were ripped or didn't zipper anymore. I threw out a wok that I had not used since I lived in out apartment, which was at least nine years ago. I got rid of an electric skillet that had a broken lid. I had saved boxes from toys...not sure why! Those went into the recycle pile. I still have a lot more to do, but I feel I got a good start. I can actually see the basement floor better and was able to shelve some boxes where the trashed items had been stored!
To recycle some of the things we have that we do not need anymore that are in good condition I joined the local freecycle group on Yahoo. We have three tv sets in our barn that we do not need, so I am hoping to pass them on to someone who cold use them. We also have two window AC units. We need to test them to see if they work before we pass them on.
Starting last winter I had begun to donate at least one bag of stuff to the Purple Heart, who actually come to our house once a month to collect things. That was very helpful at the change of season, when we sorted through all of out old clothing.
This past weekend I sold lots of baby stuff at a consignment sale that is held twice a year. I don't know how much money I made yet, but the only things that didn't sell were some clothes, so I am happy with that. (The clothes are going to Goodwill!)
I still have lots of work to do. Hopefully Andrew will continue to nap daily, giving me at least an hour or so to keep clearing out. It's going to take a long time, but in the end I know it will be a better place for all of us.